Missing Datin was found after 11 days. According the a statement from her husband, she was sick and don’t want to make her family worried. Thus, she stayed in her relative’s place.
But she finally broke her silence and revealed what was happening to her and also her relationship with her husband.
The Original Post :
I believed a lot of you will be interested to know what was happening to me. This facebook post will be my first and last to talk about my relationship.
First, i wanted to apology to public, this probably looks like a joke to you. I’m just a normal housewife and i don’t like to share my family matters publicly.
However, since it’s already talk of the town, then i think i should do some clarification.
I accepted all the good and bad comments. I totally agreed that we shouldn’t wash our dirty linen in public. I don’t need to explained to anyone!
For Dato’ Patrick Yee Chee Wai who was looking for me the past these few days. I just can said he don’t understand me.
I just want to let you know why i was leaving home without informing anyone.
Firstly, I’m not missing. Secondly, I didn’t stay in my relative’s place. Those who said want to leave normally won’t leave. But those who leave without telling others because they are feeling too hurt.
I don’t want to think back and i don’t blame others.( When a couple are together there is no right or wrong, somehow they used to love each other). I should be handle my family matters personally and i never thought it will become a news headlines.
Datin is just how people addressed me. Somehow now it become an entertainment news.
I have 2 kids with Dato’ Patrick Yee Chee Wai, 1 kid is almost 3-year-old and another one almost 2-year-old.
The fact is, during the 4 years, he is also the husband for 2 families. He divorced for 2 times and i’m his 3rd marriage. In total, he have 5 kids and uncountable girlfriends. To be honest, i couldn’t take it mentally anymore.
And he always suspect that i committed adultery. Most of the time during my pregnancy i was all alone. Taking care of kids are tiring. Women’s emotion was mostly depending on men’s attitude.
Throughout the years , there was no mental support or encouragement from Dato’ Patrick Yee Chee Wai. I don’t blame him, i just blame myself not tough enough.
Living under the stress, me and my kids are in a very terrible condition. On the day that i left home because i’m sick, he even send the 2 kids to welfare department.
To his friends or outsiders, he looks hardworking but at home he is lazy. He even limit me financially. I really fall sick that day. He probably thought i took it as an excuses for not taking care of the kids. He never even care am i sick but concerned which man i’m with during that time.
I don’t want to explained further. i just want to say we are not a qualified parents but don’t create memories that haunts the kids. I believed Dato’ Patrick Yee Chee Wai will be responsible to his kids and hope media to give us some room. Thanks for your concern!
P/s : I’m not a public figure so i don’t accept any interview.