In an effort to protect the children and prevent them from suffering the consequences of their behavior, parents can begin to hen-pick, scold, complain or nag. Same goes to this university student, his mother keep nagging on the way he spend money. He was obviously not happy with them.
The post read:
Is it only me that wanted to study somewhere and quickly get away from home?
When i was young, mum always educate me ” we are not wealthy family, please do not over-spend and save some money”, her thoughts make me feel incompetent. But looking at my family financial status, we consider quite ok! We have a few houses, a shop lot to rent out, a few cars. My dad also bought branded stuff while mum just wearing those cheap clothing and never bought new cloth.
I will need to go back to Kampar lately, thus bought some new clothes and shoes, and it’s not that expensive, RM150 -RM300 for 1 top, RM80 for a pant and shoes for RM700 ++, i bought a shirt for my presentation.
My dad said OK, but my mum kept nagging, saying why am i spending so much on clothing? saying me over-spend. Hello? Isn’t them necessities? why do i need to save on it? Moreover, my dad agreed with me. You thought everyone like you? everything is expensive!
Moreover, during school holiday i did some part time job. I bought iPhone and earphones with my own money. And i do have some savings. My mum was making noise and said : 「 Why must you buying such an expensive phone? we are not that rich. Please save some money.」
Seriously, i was thinking : If i never go out to further my study and continue to stay at home and educated by her kind of thoughts. Sure i will not have a successful life.
I really hope to go away from home to further my study, even working part time i don’t mind. As long as quickly graduate then work somewhere and get away from this home. Just meeting maybe once a week, and give parents some money will do .
▼ Doesn’t seems like you are living a tough live but still work hard!
▼ “Clothing for RM1000 ++ actually is quite pricey.”, ” RM700 ++ for a pair of shoes and it’s not pricey??”
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▼ Some thought the post author really spending too much on clothing,” My cloth only RM10++ for 1 piece.” ” What?! one for RM150++ , I spend RM30+ in Pasar malam only” , ” Even H&M only RM50+ , I can buy 3 pieces in H&M”, ” I can get 4 pcs in Padini = RM150″
▼ ” Expensive or not it’s really depends on your benchmark. Your mum just don’t want you to over-spend for your own good ”
▼ Some sided the mother and said, ” really no point to get such a pricey clothes”, “Your mum is right, RM150 for a cloth is too much. Why don’t you only buy expensive cloth when you are on your own.”
▼ One netizen suggested the post author to compare the price and quality before buying, be a smart consumer instead.
▼ One thought this youngster still need a lot of life experience, ” my mum also the same, when you started to work then you will know money it’s not easy to earn.”
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