Parents don’t allow daughter to stay overnight in Boyfriend’s place, reason being– ” It’s Chinese tradition”?
A Malaysian girl took a social media page to share that she is in a relationship with her boyfriend for 1 month plus and her boyfriend suggested her to stay overnight in his place. But her parents objected her to do so, even they are sleeping in a different room! But, the problem is her daughter is almost 40-year-old..
The post read:
Me and my boyfriend are in a relationship for 1 month plus, he suggested me to stay overnight in his place and sending me home on the next day ( as he will need to spend around 2 hours for the whole journey). So, we spend more times together. But, my family said before marriage i shouldn’t stay overnight in my boyfriend’s place as others will be condemning me, even we are staying in a separate room. No matter how late is it, I will still need to go home. Spending a holiday together is close to impossible. ” It’s Chinese taboo.”
Therefore, my boyfriend think i do not have my own stand and opinion.
Should i just ignore my parents objection? Remarks: We are both close to 40-year-old.
▼ A lot of netizens were dumbfounded … 40 + 40 years old = 80 years old!
▼ At first, i thought your parents are right. But after looking at your age, i think your boyfriend is right!
▼ ” So wait for the menopause only your mum agreed you to stay overnight is it?” , ” I don’t think you can get married if you continue to listen to your family”
▼ ” You shouldn’t go overnight in your boyfriend’s place at the age of 14 but not 40″ , ” 30++ and still need to listen to your parents?”
▼ “As long as you are alive, you always stand a chance to get married.” , ” Wait until 55-year-old, once married hair already turning grey, wonderful!”
▼ ” Maybe your mum don’t know even not staying overnight, you can also do the things you like? ……………………. like playing poker on the bed.”
▼ You just listen to your mum and let him go , he deserve a better one.
▼ If my daughter is 40, i will ask her don’t come home.
▼ One netizen also sharing her own opinion : co-habit before marriage do have advantage as you can find out if you and your partner can co-exist in a shared space and have a relationship that will last a lifetime.
▼ But some netizens also sided the parents and thought they knew each other for a short time, she should spend more times to understand the man’s motif first.
▼ Nothing to do with the age, but as a parents, i think they just concern about you. If the man love you he will respect you.
▼ One netizen also rationally suggested her to communicate with her parents. And he suspected the family is the main reason why she is still single at this age.
Info via:MY (Malaysia) / Facebook
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