Parents don’t allow daughter to stay overnight in Boyfriend’s place, reason being– ” It’s Chinese tradition”?
A Malaysian girl took a social media page to share that she is in a relationship with her boyfriend for 1 month plus and her boyfriend suggested her to stay overnight in his place. But her parents objected her to do so, even they are sleeping in a different room! But, the problem is her daughter is almost 40-year-old..
The post read:
Me and my boyfriend are in a relationship for 1 month plus, he suggested me to stay overnight in his place and sending me home on the next day ( as he will need to spend around 2 hours for the whole journey). So, we spend more times together. But, my family said before marriage i shouldn’t stay overnight in my boyfriend’s place as others will be condemning me, even we are staying in a separate room. No matter how late is it, I will still need to go home. Spending a holiday together is close to impossible. ” It’s Chinese taboo.”
Therefore, my boyfriend think i do not have my own stand and opinion.
Should i just ignore my parents objection? Remarks: We are both close to 40-year-old.
▼ A lot of netizens were dumbfounded … 40 + 40 years old = 80 years old!
▼ At first, i thought your parents are right. But after looking at your age, i think your boyfriend is right!
▼ ” So wait for the menopause only your mum agreed you to stay overnight is it?” , ” I don’t think you can get married if you continue to listen to your family”
▼ ” You shouldn’t go overnight in your boyfriend’s place at the age of 14 but not 40″ , ” 30++ and still need to listen to your parents?”
▼ “As long as you are alive, you always stand a chance to get married.” , ” Wait until 55-year-old, once married hair already turning grey, wonderful!”
▼ ” Maybe your mum don’t know even not staying overnight, you can also do the things you like? ……………………. like playing poker on the bed.”
▼ You just listen to your mum and let him go , he deserve a better one.
▼ If my daughter is 40, i will ask her don’t come home.
▼ One netizen also sharing her own opinion : co-habit before marriage do have advantage as you can find out if you and your partner can co-exist in a shared space and have a relationship that will last a lifetime.
▼ But some netizens also sided the parents and thought they knew each other for a short time, she should spend more times to understand the man’s motif first.
▼ Nothing to do with the age, but as a parents, i think they just concern about you. If the man love you he will respect you.
▼ One netizen also rationally suggested her to communicate with her parents. And he suspected the family is the main reason why she is still single at this age.
Info via：MY (Malaysia) / Facebook
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