Do you ever play favourites among your kids, or know parents who do? The long-term effects of parental favouritism may run deeper than you think.
Lately, a mother from China found her 7-year-old daughter heart-wrenching note. The note read, ” Mum, I know you don’t love me at all, I hate you. If there is a next life or even next life.. I don’t want to be your kid anymore”. Most netizens said they are heart-breaking reading the note from the little girl.
According to media from China, the mother has 2 children, 7-year-old daughter and 3-year-old son. She told media, even when she just give birth to her son, the daughter is very helpful and understanding. Thus, she spends most of her time and focuses on her son.
In one event, the son took away her daughter’s toy, but she didn’t give in to share the toy with her brother. When her brother beat her, she beat him back. After the mother knew about it, she punished her daughter.
The incident made her daughter felt hurt. Her mother found a note in her room that written: ” Brother beat me up, I beat him back. You beat me and said I beat him.” She ended her note with a sad crying face.
Besides this note, the mother found another note when she cleans her room too. The heart-wrenching note expressed her dissatisfaction towards her parental favouritism.
The note was written,” Mum, I know you don’t love me, I hate you.. next life or even next next next life I don’t want to be your kid anymore. I even die also don’t want to be your kid.”
She even questioned her mother, is she her biological mum. And some of her drawings also showed in her mum’s eye, only her father and brother, she is nothing to her mum.
Netizens felt sad after reading her note, some commenters also said the daughter must be feeling very hurt to pen down her feelings and advised the mother to love both kids equally.
Info via China Press