On Monday (Aug 3), a female trainer named Cheryl shared a video on Instagram where an unprofessional male trainer touching his female client inappropriately during a workout session
Her post came with a caption:
โ ๐ง๐ต๐ถ๐ ๐ถ๐ ๐๐๐ฆ๐ข๐๐จ๐ง๐๐๐ฌ ๐๐ก๐๐ฃ๐ฃ๐ฅ๐ข๐ฃ๐ฅ๐๐๐ง๐ ๐ฎ๐ ๐ฎ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ต/๐๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ถ๐ป๐ฒ๐ฟ — ๐๐ฎ๐๐ฐ๐ต ๐๐ถ๐น๐น ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฑ — โ
When the other party is not comfortable with such action, this is considered a case of sexual assault. It is a very serious offence in Singapore, and unfortunately this has happened way too many times with coaches abusing their position and authority to do things like that. I personally consider this more despicable and disturbing than molesting a stranger – this is using the student’s trust to commit such an act, which can really mindfxxk( mentally disturb) a person for a long time.
The coach in this video is a freelance trainer working by himself, and is not an employee of the gym.
I have reached out to the client (swipe to second image) to let her know that it is NOT normal for such physical interaction during training, it is very unprofessional, and that she can speak up if she have felt uncomfortable about her coach touching inappropriately and groping during some exercises. Also spoke to her (not on text), and it turned out this was indeed her first time having a coach, facing such situation for the first time. ๐ฆ๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐น๐ฑ ๐ต๐ถ๐บ “don’t touch my butt” a few times over 7 training sessions, but he still went ahead to do so, using “checking muscles” as an excuse – which many trainers will know that’s complete BS.
๐๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ถ๐ฟ๐ผ ๐ฃ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ๐บ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ ๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐บ๐ผ๐๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐ต๐ถ๐บ from using the gym space to conduct his own PT sessions – with effect from 2 August – and the client has now stopped training with him. She will not be making a police report, but she has given me the permission to share about this as she also wants all women, girls, or even guys out there to know that this behaviour is not acceptable and that nobody should put up with any actions that make them feel uneasy, uncomfortable, and disrespected. Anyone that feels this way should speak up and not let the perpetrator has his/her way. #ShareThisPost
I am very glad that @apeirolife doesn’t tolerate such behaviour, and I’m happy to be conducting my PT sessions in a safe, fun, and professional space with other likeminded professional trainers.
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HELLO.CANNOT ! No touching touching..Hopefully the male trainer can learn his lesson. And girls, if you feel uncomfortable or uneasy please say NO because such behaviour is not acceptable and should not be tolerated.
Info via IG/Cherylfit_sg