We always describe parental love as unconditional, they loves you without confines. They express their love to you whether you succeed or fail. They don’t hold it against you if you’re going through a tough time. BUT, probably not for all..
According to China Press, a Taiwanese girl took social media to rant on how her mum treating her. She said since very young her mother started to record all the money she spend on her including school fees, tuition fees, money to buy things she needed.
Not only that, her mother never gave her pocket money. Thus, since form 3 she will need to do part time job for her own pocket money. She used to think this is normal, every children grow up like her.
When she was in University, she wanted to buy more learning aids as well as joining some extra-curricular activities. Although her mother was paying for that, but still she recorded those charges and fees clearly. The girl don’t know the reason behind why her mum did that to her. Sometimes even wonder is she the biological daughter.
After she graduated from University, she found a job with a fix income and she will need to payback on instalment basis which is half of her salary every month. To date, she still owed her mum TWD 100k ( RM 14,500).
Let’s check out the netizens’ comments:
▼ ” When you give birth to your daughter, have you ask her permission?”
▼” The children can say: It’s not me that wanted to come to this world but you force me to come”
▼ Some said ” She didn’t ask you to give birth to her, how to calculate?” , ” The girl thought she is the by-product of the mum and dad’s happiness”, ” The daughter can ask the mother to give her agreement to give birth to her?”, ” Maybe the mum don’t intended to have a child, it’s just an accident?”, ” put her back in the tummy then”
▼” Did the mum includes the inflation rate?”
▼ A top fan commented:” Suggest the girl to ask her mum, did the mum pay back by instalment to her grandma?” and one poking fun, ” her instalment should be done, so now gave birth to a daughter to refinance”
▼ One wrote :” So after the payback does it mean she can leave?? Even when you are old, no one responsible to take care of you. Unless, you are paying?” Some resonate with the comment and said,” It’s impossible that we can payback everything that parents sacrifice for us.” Another netizen said, ” My kid don’t owe me, because i decided to give birth to them. i feel blessed to have them around me and wish they are happy and healthy always.”
▼” I disagree with what the mum did. Of course, the mum can ask her to payback the money she invested on her. But what if when the mum is old, need medication. Can the daughter ask her to pay the medical fees and also the money to arrange her funeral?”
▼” The highlight of the education should be on moral, not the money invested on a kid and asking them to payback “
▼ ” Once you give birth then it’s your responsibility to raise the children, no matter the children will take care of you or not. As a parents, you shouldn’t be calculative”
▼ One poking fun and said,” the mum must be working in PTPTN..”
▼ ” Who knows there will be a plot twist, before the mum pass away she told the daughter she kept and will pass her all the money she payback.”
Do you agree with this mother to ask your child to payback all the money you invested on them?
Info via China Press