In some of the country like Japan, UK we are seeing a light trend towards being happily single. So, what caused this dramatic shift? Economic concern about the future is one reason that youngster have been avoiding the responsibility that marriage entails as staying single they can use the money on themselves and not been restricted.
An anonymous young man took social media to share the 【7 differences 】 between in a romantic relationship and been single.
▼ Some said this is a very rare, quality post! Highly recommended!
Without a comparison, probably you never noticed those who are in a romantic relationship maybe spending additional RM8,000 per month!
The post read：
Romantic Relationship VS Solo（Expenses for a month）
① Dating/ Meals：
- Romantic Relationship RM300 – RM500
- Single RM0
You can spend RM300-RM500 just for 1 meal in HaiDiLao, Beauty in the Pot and many more restaurants. Those who are single just need to spend a normal meal. No additional expenses on the meal.
② Spending on cosmetics：
- Romantic Relationship RM150 – RM400
- Single RM0 – 50
③ Presents：
Of course, even it’s not a special event you will still need to send some presents to make him/ her happy.
- Romantic Relationship – RM100 – RM500
- Single – RM0
④ Shopping：
Oh no …..This is the killing one..
- Romantic Relationship RM200 – 800
- Single RM100 – 400
Buy shoes.. bags.. clothes and desserts, no cinema ( Because she thinks it’s wasting her time), go karaoke, buy hair dryer and hair straightener and so on..
⑤ Travel：
- Romantic Relationship RM1000 – RM5000
- Single RM500 – RM2500
This is ok for now. As travelling need to spend a lot. I can only afford to spend in Asia now but not Europe for now.. Hahaha!
⑥ Birthday present：
Of course, the birthday present cannot be cheap. Or else you are a cheap boyfriend.
- Romantic Relationship RM1000 – RM4000
- Single RM0
If you really love her then you should get her something like a nice smart phone or some branded stuff. This is what we called ” Love” .. What? can’t afford? then you are useless .. you should think of a way how to make more money for your girlfriend.
⑦ Dessert：
- Romantic Relationship RM100-200
- Single RM0-RM30
I’m single, what i do normally is getting some ice-cream in supermarket for dessert. But when you are in a relationship, i bet you don’t dare to just buy ice-cream from supermarket. Or your girlfriend will be telling you, ” so boring ?! I don’t want. I want the XXX soy bean, ice-cream, dessert, cakes.. “and the list goes on…
In the nutshell, if you don’t have money better don’t start a relationship. How much money you should have to start a relationship? i really don’t know. But the moment you have more money, you another half will be asking for more.
Choose a girl who are on light make-up or no make-up. Don’t get those everyday looking at Douyin, those are poisoned. Whatever you do, they will be telling you. You are not considerate and don’t love her enough.
Get the girls that will manage your finance and plan the future together! Because they are mature enough and to be in a relationship with you and building a home together.
Being young we must be able to go through some hardship. As this era, comparing with those days it’s harder to own a property or a car. You can ask your dad what was his income like those day and the price of goods. Then you can roughly have an idea what is the inflation rate like.
Therefore, to get a good partner, soulmate is important. Choose the one that can work hard with you and not based on their appearance, as you may not that handsome too, so be realistic! Even you are handsome and rich also don’t be dishonest in your relationship. Why not treasure the girl that been working hard with you for your future? Seriously, no real love??
Hahaha, at first i thought of posting a Google form here to know someone who prefer light make-up and motivated. But i think it’s ok. I should first make sure my finance is well taken care of. While, for girls i can wait. Woman at the age of 30-40 maybe can manage herself and the finance better.
Remember, only choose those who will work hard with you. Not those asking you to work hard for her. She is spending all her income every month without any savings but still asking you for this and that.
If you are now experience the same. I’m thinking you should just end the relationship as it’s not healthy. If you feel your girlfriend act the same asking for a lot of things. You better watch out. Unless she is the type who works very hard. Then it’s a different story.
I’m not the type that will rely on a girl as i have my own self-esteem. I wanted to get someone who want to be successful like me. I will always remember your sacrifices.
Taking care house chores and the success together! This is called healthy relationship.
▼ I’m looking at your budget for dessert RM100-200. I knew we have different concept in financial management.
▼ Women at their age of 30-40 normally won’t be interested with you.
▼ Very much depends on who is your partner. My skincare and cosmetics are on my own. Going for a meal with boyfriend also not those expensive one. Breakfast and lunch normally in normal kopitiam. Sometime i cooked also. Only dinner, we will spend more like having steamboat but normally within RM100. Dating once a week ( So, we will have some space for ourself too.) Sometimes, when i have more income i will also buy him a meal/ pump petrol for him.
▼ Remind me of my ex-girlfriend. Every time i go dating with her she won’t let me pay and when i wanted to buy her something normally she rejected me. Those day i wasn’t happy and though she looking down at me. But now, i was thinking anymore girl like this??
▼ I can’t deny that been single i always can afford whatever i want.
Info via ：Tantan Confessions Malaysia / Facebook
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