Love may not “cost a thing,” but dating sure does. And it may hit your wallet particularly hard.
An Anonymous netizen shared in a Facebook page, Xuan Play. Whenever, he and the girlfriend went dating, he shouldered all the expenses and each meal may costs him about RM200++. His credit card debt is about RM27k as of now..
The post read:
I have a girlfriend for 2 years, she is from a well-to-do family. But the problem is to have a relationship with her drained me financially. Whenever we went out for a date, she will be suggesting for restaurants (steamboat like HaidiLao, BBQ) or cafe or something at least costs RM200 or above.
During the long weekend, she will also asked for 3D2N trip. As a boyfriend, i feel ashamed to ask to go dutch. So, i bear all the costs.
One year down the road, my credit card debt was rolling like a snow ball. Sadly, i just managed to pay the minimum payment every month. The interest is getting more and more and i can’t sleep well every night.
I was thinking to be frank with her. But i can’t imagine the disappointment in her eyes and her expression of dislike. In the other hand, i’m worried looking at my RM27,000 ++ credit card debt and i don’t dare to share with any of my friends.
Am i a loser?
▼ Netizen: If you are in a relationship but your partner cannot understand and take care of you. How to sustain the relationship? And now you have financial problem, you should be frank with her. If she loves you, she won’t be leaving you but to solve the problem with you.
Netizen: I don’t think they can go through the tough days together. In the case, the boy can’t afford the girlfriend, it means he don’t loves her anymore. Then they will just break up. After the boy reveals the truth he is in debt, the girl will surely said he cheated her, as when you are poor it’s your fault.
▼ “You shouldn’t pretend you can afford in the beginning, just be frank with her. I think to have someone on par is important. However, if she loves you, she will understand.”
▼” My personal experience, be frank with your another half if you still want to continue your relationship with her. But if you are thinking to marry this girl isn’t it you should discuss and talk to her?”
▼ Netizen: This kind of unhealthy relationship can stay for how long? why don’t just break up with her.
Netizen: This kind of relationship cannot last long.
▼” Don’t pretend that you can afford! You are the one put your yourself in trouble. Just dating someone you already in RM30k debt. I can’t imagine when you tie the knot with her.”
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