Life’s journey simply becomes more enjoyable, exciting and fulfilling when you have Mr. Right by your side. But who is the ideal man, and how do you know that you have found him?
A Malaysian girl took social media to seek for opinion whether his boyfriend is the Mr.Right. In her post, she listed weakness and strength of his boyfriend, who she had been dating for 6 years.
Her post read:
Will your guys tolerate your boyfriend weakness by looking at his strength?
His strength:
- Gentle
- Keep a distance with other girls
- Quite transparent, can show me his phone all the time
- Always listen to me ( e.g. If i craving for any food, then next day he will bring me for the food)
- Always give me the best
- Never show his temper to me
- Willing to help
- Nagging
- He comes from a wealthy family
- I can totally be myself in front of him
His weakness:
- easily puzzle by some small matters
- Not good in handling things
- Not good in arranging things ( e.g. travelling, air ticket, accomodation, transportation mostly arranged by me)
- Too skinny, bony to exact
- Feminine ( sometimes he will even shout when he freak out)
- Lousy photographing skills
- Very slow in eating and driving ( 50-60km/h)
- No sense of direction, i wanted to go donating blood in the hospital after MCO and eventually he forgot where is the hospital.
I mentioned his weakness to him before, however i think he never improve. Deep down my heart, i really mind, sometimes i wonder after been together for 6 years, am i really going to stay forever with this man?
Let’s check out the netizens’ comments:
▼” Now only i know nagging is a strength too”
▼” Highlight: He is from a wealthy family”
▼” After 6 years in relationship, you are still asking for opinion whether he is your Mr. Right? Who is the one not good in handling things?”
▼” Strength more than weakness, he consider quite ok. Nothing la, hopefully the both of you are blessed with happiness”
▼” In fact, his weakness doesn’t consider a weakness yet. It’s just he need to improve his personality”
▼” My point of view, his strength is he got a girlfriend, weakness ~his girlfriend haven’t break up with him”
▼” If he change all his weakness then his strength will be gone too. For examples, when he is good in planning and arrangement, he will making decision and not listening to you anymore. If he is busy with in his career then he will not have time to accompany you, or take note of feeling. Moreover, when he don’t have a weakness, he become great person, he may change you as a girlfriend anytime.
In a love relationship nothing is perfect, we don’t have 2 person with 100% but 2 person with 50%.”
▼” Kid, break up with your boyfriend. I’m sure his weakness upset you. Let him make other girls happy ok”
▼” Once you think there is a problem occur between the both of you, i would suggest just break up”
▼” Maybe you also with a lot of weakness and he was tolerating you as well. But you are planning to leave him”
▼” No one is perfect in this world, and you too. But he never give up on him. But if you really cannot accept his weakness then just break up. Or else, one day you will leave him for the same reason too. It’s not that he need to change but you have to learn to accept others imperfection”
▼” I think you are feeling good on yourself, thinking probably perfect man exist? If you love someone means you can tolerate everything of him, be it weakness or strength. I think you just don’t love him anymore. I think no one scolded you here. then i will be the one. If it’s a man writing this post, i’m sure a lot of people will bashed him”
Remember that perfection doesn’t exist, but there is someone imperfectly perfect out there for you.
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